Step Parent Adoption (Adopting a Child You live with)
Adopting a stepchild
You need to tell your local council if you want to adopt your spouse’s or partner’s child. This is not a service that Together4Children manages as it is managed directly by your relevant local authority.
The details for each Council in our area are:
Staffordshire
Email: [email protected]
Call: 0300 111 8007
Stoke On Trent
Email: [email protected]
Call: 01782 235020
Shropshire and Telford and Wrekin (joint adoption service)
Email: [email protected]
Call: 01743 250138
Further information can also be found on the UK Government Website
The adoption assessment
The process to adopt is similar to an assessment through an adoption agency. You must do this at least 3 months before applying to a court for an adoption order.
To be able to start an assessment the child must also have lived with both of you for at least 6 months.
The assessment is used to help a court decide if you can adopt the child (rather than being sent to an independent adoption panel).
The court will ask your local council to provide a report on:
- your partner
- the child
- the other birth parent
The report will be prepared by a social worker and will be used to help the court make a decision.
If granted, the adoption court order gives you parental responsibility for the child – along with your spouse or partner.
The order also takes away parental responsibility from:
- the child’s other birth parent
- anyone else who has parental responsibility for the child
An adoption order cancels any other type of court order, such as how and when the child’s birth parent can visit the child.
Please contact your local authority on the details shown for further information and guidance regarding this service.
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Meet our adopters
Below are some of our adopters that wish to tell their story regarding their adoption journey…

Raj’s Story
Raj’s Story I’m a single woman who comes from a large supportive family. I’m currently just starting on the adoption journey and at the very early stages of the approval

Aiden & Jayden’s Story
Aiden & Jayden’s Story Aiden and Jayden first thought about adoption four years ago. As a same sex male couple in their 40’s, they had long ago ruled out the

Carl & Natasha’s Story
Carl and Natasha’s story My wife Natasha, and I adopted our two boys five or six years ago called Mark and Kevin. We had decided, early on in the adoption
Who are we?
Together4Children is a partnership between Shropshire Council, Staffordshire County Council, Stoke-on-Trent City Council and Telford & Wrekin Council. We are the regional adoption agency for the four councils. We also provide other services and initiatives that support children’s permanency.
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